You make a very good point. Most people want to know that someone heard them.
We actually need a few more moderators to help. We count on the people who are regular and active to help reach out, but some people fall through the cracks. It's not their fault, but since we're all volunteers visiting and posting when we have time, I don't know what the solution is.
I worry about this too, as I also remember the impact the people on this forum had on me. It seems to me that around the 3 year mark, people start drifting away, and needing the contact here less. I try and look every couple of days, but usually have enough emotional energy to connect with those who have also lost children.
I hope you can keep posting- I appreciate hearing from someone further down the road than me.
Karyl, I think the solution is all of us. We are a community of people bound by the same tragic loss. We need to look after each other as best we can.
I'll like you for always.
As long as I'm living,
My baby you'll be.