Sorry...I'm just all over the place with questions on the board. Just figure since we are in the same club I might be able to get some light shed on the journey ahead of me.
If nothing else, give refuge to those in need.
Thing is I don't want to "replace her". It's not like getting dumped where you can easily go "there's plenty of fish I'm the sea. You'll find someone better."
I go work out at the health club and get out amongst friends and
people. However I am now finding my walls coming up at the mention of this (although if I bring it up its fine). I snapped last week when I was told by a woman I know what I need to change about me to get women to notice me. I said Kristin loved me as I am. If anyone else has a problem with me being me...that's their problem not mine. Got into my car and left the place I was at.
Honestly, I don't think anyone wants to hear immediately that someone's ex passed in such a tragic way! (Imagine being in the other person's shoes hearing that right off the bat!) That being said I know as a survivor it is a big time reason who you are today and I also know ppl who are interested, sooner than later, will bring up their past relationships. My recommendation, would be "My ex was (say something positive), but I don't want to get into all of that! You'll know when you feel ready, you're gaurd will let you know!
To say "I'm going to assume that someone will love me again oneday," That's very, amazingly, special and positive! And, yes, someone will!
Blossom, you're post was great, honey!
I still thought of my Ash every day of our relationship, but like I said we just weren't right. I think he was there to give me my beautiful son, who I live for now and to open me up again to someone who is more suited to me.