i think this topic just kinda went in unintended directions maybe b/c the hurt ppl were feeling about this topic and I don't think anyone meant any hurt towards anyone else. The conversation/communication got, well hell I don't know the word I'm looking for, but y'all know what I mean!
OK I ll turn the topic back over to y'all because obviously my ADHD mind is coming up with blanks now! '
Fay, you have done nothing wrong at all. This is an important and highly charged topic, because it is so important. Thank you for posting. To me, your post was valuable, helpful and informative.
We are or have all been basket cases many times, and with an anniversary approaching, believe me I understand feeling that way. Saying what's on your mind and getting feedback can be a godsend for all of us. Please don't feel bad about your posts, and keep posting when you feel like it. We are with you. We are all in this grief, one way or another.
and please continue to post your feelings any time...we are all here for you, and listening. Our journeys, while being the same, are very different, if that makes any sense at all.
Sometimes what we mean to say or what we are trying to say gets misinterpreted by others but we all mean well and are trying to help each other. Tomorrow is another day, and I
hope yours is filled with light and sunshine...peace to you,
It's hard sometimes to get the words right and I'm sorry that I did so poorly. I'm on your side Fay and if there is something you think that can be done about this, then please feel free to let us know about it. Together we can try to change the way things are.
Proud Army Mom
I thought I would lay down and die after losing my Son to suicide.
Instead I chose to fight the monster that killed him.
Hold On, Pain Ends