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23 Nov

Postby samwong » Tue Nov 01, 2011 9:38 am

It will be one year. It seem like yesterday yet at the same time like eternity. Whatever how that day turn up, my grieves hurt me cos I love you. Grieve is a sort of love.

I love you mum. So much, so much.
I LOVE MY MUM! SEE YOU IN HEAVEN WHEN MY TIME HAS COME.
GOD, Please show your loves to all.
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Blossom » Tue Nov 01, 2011 2:54 pm

Holding you and your mum and family in my thoughts, Sam.
I sometimes think of your mum and her sewing...I admire her deeply.
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Suzanne » Tue Nov 01, 2011 3:44 pm

Dear Sam,
You are right. Grieving is love. You have told us enough about your mother so I know you are worthy of each other's love. If there had not been love, there would be no pain.
Make a plan for the day and hug little Sophie.
I will be thinking of you.

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Re: 23 Nov

Postby cmarie » Tue Nov 01, 2011 6:59 pm

I am thinking of you Sam. I am picturing your mum with my Liam. They are sitting together, sharing a slice of cake, and a quiet conversation. It's a picture that makes me smile and cry at the same time.

Thank you for giving me the words about grief and love. Somehow it makes it more bearable.
Take good, good care Sam.
I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always.
As long as I'm living,
My baby you'll be.
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Crystl » Wed Nov 02, 2011 7:14 pm

Suzanne wrote: If there had not been love, there would be no pain.
Suzanne

so true..
I can always hear the depth of your love for your dear Mum Sam...she knows it too
I will be thinking of you and sending you *hugs* to cope with this difficult time on your journey through this grief and pain
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Sweetpea » Wed Nov 02, 2011 11:04 pm

Sam, we share the same one year mark. I will definitely be thinking of you and your mom, and sending hugs your way!
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Tootle » Fri Nov 04, 2011 12:10 pm

Dear Sam...I am holding you in my heart and sending prayers and well wishes. Take care and be patient with yourself and your grief...I hope your days off are peaceful and have some joy.

Warm regards,
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby samwong » Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:04 am

Thanks all. Yesterday was the official one year aniversary based on chinese calender. i woke up with sadness .

With the familiar pain going through everyday, i sometimes wonder if we get numb to it. Yes, baby Sophie do bring me a commitment to her. But JOY is something so far. .. so far.

One side of me keep telling me reason to keep climbing the mountain. take a rest if necessary.
-" GOD LET YOU HAVE YR MOM FOR 33 YEARS, HE GAVE, AND NOW HE CALLED HER HOME "
-" GOD KNOW I WILL BE SAD, SO HE GAVE ME A DAUGHTER"

I always try to keep myself not slipping into depression, how can i ever be happy again with the dying of our loveones in such a way. I am just waiting for my time to be call back.. sadly but true...
I LOVE MY MUM! SEE YOU IN HEAVEN WHEN MY TIME HAS COME.
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Drew48 » Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:08 pm

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Better to have loved and lost....than never loved at all....
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Re: 23 Nov

Postby Crystl » Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:25 am

dear sam....((hugs))
hearing your pain..
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