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by Blossom
Mon Dec 08, 2014 1:07 am
Forum: Left Alone
Topic: I am extremely tempted to get the police and coroner photos
Replies: 17
Views: 7111

Re: I am extremely tempted to get the police and coroner pho

Hi, Iamjoesforever, I am very sorry for the loss of your soulmate. I completely understand your need to immerse yourself in anyway you can...literally and figuratively. People are so different, aren't they....even in grief. I was definitely an 'investigator'....but very cosmic as well. I say 'was', ...
by Blossom
Fri Oct 24, 2014 6:00 am
Forum: * This Month *
Topic: Lost Mom 10/10/14
Replies: 3
Views: 1958

Re: Lost Mom 10/10/14

Maggie - I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you may find some moments to yourself and some moments with others, to express your loss and to be held in arms, company, regard. Hold on, it' s a day a by day experience, but I want you to know that you will survive. Please read and write as you des...
by Blossom
Mon Oct 13, 2014 5:07 am
Forum: * This Month *
Topic: September 8, 2012
Replies: 3
Views: 1874

Re: September 8, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss, Rainbows. I am glad that you shared your story. The orbit of an anniversary of a loss of this magnitude is so so hard. I hope that your ship has begun the motions of righting by now when I am replying.

Peace, care for yourself. Blossom x
by Blossom
Thu Oct 09, 2014 11:16 am
Forum: Fathers and Mothers
Topic: My guilt and how did YOU cope?
Replies: 11
Views: 5161

Re: My guilt and how did YOU cope?

Dear Johnsmom, I'm very sorry for the loss of your son. We too lost our son, a few months after your loss. Our circumstances were different but I have at times, burned with guilt. A mother's guilt. It seems to be built in. This has changed somewhat over time. I know that unpacking this experience at...
by Blossom
Thu Oct 09, 2014 10:29 am
Forum: * This Month *
Topic: Death anniversary. 3 years without my sister
Replies: 2
Views: 1922

Re: Death anniversary. 3 years without my sister

It's not long, is it? Three years and that missing so sharp. I am sorry for the loss of your sister. Anniversaries are very hard....oh that lead up! I wanted to write to say that I too have had a few memorable meltdowns - it is scary to lose control and yet I found it cleared the air like a good rai...
by Blossom
Wed Oct 08, 2014 2:15 am
Forum: * This Month *
Topic: October 7 2000
Replies: 1
Views: 1465

Re: October 7 2000

You are not alone in remembering Gregory today.

I wish for you a little peace following those inevitable tears.

Take care.

xxx
by Blossom
Mon Sep 22, 2014 3:51 am
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: Son sept 4
Replies: 5
Views: 2035

Re: Son sept 4

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by Blossom
Sun Sep 21, 2014 6:27 am
Forum: Venting
Topic: Life is upside down
Replies: 1
Views: 1572

Re: Life is upside down

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear mum, Hawk. Yes, I found that after the activity of my son's funeral and sorting out 'stuff'. when all the world went quiet once again, my brain got very loud with tumbling thoughts, my feelings rose and fell. I can well understand your feelings....like a moment...
by Blossom
Sun Sep 21, 2014 6:15 am
Forum: Newly Bereaved
Topic: Son sept 4
Replies: 5
Views: 2035

Re: Son sept 4

I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my son 4 years ago. I can imagine the vulnerability you felt in writing those words. Please take great care of yourself...drink water, lay your head down and rest when you can...I put the radio on to drown out my thoughts...and please please please read presen...
by Blossom
Fri Sep 19, 2014 5:10 am
Forum: Sons and Daughters
Topic: Wondering about my mom
Replies: 5
Views: 2846

Re: Wondering about my mom

I've read a lot about postpartum depression and psychosis. I even did a school project on it last year. I don't know if my mother had it, but for some reason I assume she did. I mean, it seems logical but who knows. The year before I was born my mother's siblings died suddenly, and she was very clo...